traumatic

We often talk about how the situations that have been put through us is the situation that made us strong and more powerful that unleashed the inner beast of us I myself have believed in that although it's not a hundred percent correct the things that you have gone through up until now has made you strong but also weak..you end up crying even after a slightest repetition of the things,you end up questioning yourself what if "you are not good enough" what if "you don't deserve the things that you have" and other things too all your traumas has put you through this pile of insecurity that you wished in you never ever have but then also you need to constantly love yourself be the best version of you now that has led me to question is it really possible is the best version of ourselves exist? Can we ever be perfect? Can we fit in our own standard.. why do we need to feel pity for ourselves how is it upto us to fix in those mad standards.. why can't we be we why do we need others to reassure us..

Now that I am talking about it it makes me realise how have I also felt the pressure of needing the constant reassurance of people now let's be real people who are upto certain standards have this idea about themselves that they are so perfect and are very ideal as per the sociaty but for people who were Always led to believe that oh you need to be this and that and you need to get this done has led to someone who was at their best breaking at so many moments and alone is hard to cope cause you can't move on from all the trauma the insecurities that led you to it....